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PAY THE PRICE?

Are You Willing To Pay The Price? Are you willing to do it? We need to be like Paul, who was obedient to the vision God had given him to do, even at great sacrifice. Every true vision will be tested for authenticity. If your vision is authentic, life is going to try it, just to make sure. If a vision is stopped or terminated by trials or tests, then perhaps it was not really a vision from God. Knowing this truth can help you when you are considering whether or not to become part of a corporate vision. Check things out beforehand.

PROCRASTINATION

PROCRASTINATION We are all guilty of procrastinating at some point or other; no one is a stranger to it, right? Some of us might be lucky enough to identify it in time and still do something about it. Unfortunately for others, it steals dreams and can even destroy lives. The reason we procrastinate varies from person to person and is not always obvious. Sometimes it is a hidden fear that we don’t want to acknowledge, or it could even be as simple as not wanting to do something because it just doesn’t motivate us. Whatever the reason may be, if you know you are a procrastinator, be careful: it has far more damaging effects than you may realize.

Tuesday's word

INDIVIDUAL DIFFRENCES Now Jane was on a vacation trip with her class teacher and some of her classmates, things were going on smoothly they played games in the bus sand and all that. When it was late at night they all sat around a camp fire all smiling. It was now time for presentation everyone should do what they know how to do best, Sandra came out  she sang and everyone was wowed  they all gave her a big round of applause, phoebe came out danced and everyone was happy too they all gave her a big round of applause as well, James came up told stories and everyone was all emotional and we was given a big round of applause , Jane was shrinking deep down because she has actually not discovered what she knows how to do best though she was good with words, she started feeling inferior that everybody is better than herself, presentation kept going on, it was now Jane’s turn she didn’t realize it was her turn until her class teacher came over to her and touched her Jane...

MONDAY DRIVE

These seven wonderful quotes would change you if you are willing to do better 1. You are enough. You were created by the same life force or divine power that creates galaxies, stars, oceans and flowers, and it created you as you are for a reason. 2. You are born inherently worthy. You don’t need to earn your worth or justify your existence by ticking off a certain number of external achievements. 3. You are unique. There has never before been a human like you and there never will be again. Do the world a favor and be yourself, instead of striving to be someone else. 4. You are a powerful creator. If you are willing to take responsibility for your beliefs, attitudes and actions, you can create the life of your dreams. 5. We all have different bodies, personalities and beliefs, but we all have the same light shining within us. We have more in common than we think. 6. There are two parts of you — your ego mind which feeds on judgment, guilt and fear, and ...

SUNDAY VIBE

HOW FAR ARE YOU WILLING TO GO FOR REVENGE? You had promised me a life like heaven on earth,  If that sacred love of ours I kept.  I had loved you and believed you,  Pushing every doubt about you from my mind.  But you took my fragile heart,  And broke it!  Leaving me in complete emptiness and disarray,  As the seemingly harmless world hit in with great magnitude.  I was hurt, I was wounded,  As with every breath I took, the pain of your words stung.  I had to do something, I had to get back at you somehow, But how?  You don't care about me, so how could I possibly hurt you? As I sat and pondered on this matter,  A cool refreshing breeze seeped through me.  An idea had materialized in my mind,  I was going to end my life!  I was going to end my life but I was going to blame you.  Then and only them would you suffer,  Would you suffer everything I did.  This is so that as I lay ...

THE DISPENSING JUG

The dispensing jug Woke up very late Rushed out of bed, Ignored the dispensing jug Running late for work, He went out empty. So busy working tirelessly Going about the daily hustle Made a lot of sense as a guy Have to work, coz no meat for a lazy fellow So tired and empty all he remembered Oh!!! My dispensing jug Walking home so tired, his legs feebly shaking As if he wasn’t going to make it home Struggled and got himself home Straight to the dispensing jug he went Oh!!! My dispensing jug he said Never going out without taking from you  

The Jack Tale

So jack was just walking on the street frustrated and lost in his thought he don’t even know what was going on around him, he always knew his greatness from the lord lies in the hand of a woman but how he don’t know, he just left a company where he went to apply for a vacant position, he wasn’t even sent away in disguise to later send him an email he was told straight away “young man you are qualified for this job but sorry it doesn’t belong to you” so many thought clouded his mind, just a week ago, a bank manager had assured him of a job, and on the day he was supposed to get the job with all anxiety and joy written over his gloomy face, he got to the bank only to be told that the bank manager was shot dead in his apartment the night that preceded that day, he was in a shocked state of mind, after seeing the light at the end of the tunnel , seem as if all his problems were solved, but he had to live with that. Managed to overcome his worries, went fo...

Love Harmonica

                     Love Harmonica Love as we all chant, it means a lot than we can imagine, it is not enough to tell people we love them, sometimes we just need to have an evidence, chill and enjoy this story I’m sure you would understand what I mean A young American engineer called Billy, was sent to Ireland by his company to work in a new electronic plant, it was a two-year assignment that he had accepted because it would enable him to earn enough to marry his long time girlfriend. She had job near her home in Tennessee their plans was to to pool their resources and put a down payment on a house when he returned. They corresponded often, but as the lonely weeks went by she began to express doubt that he was being true to her because of the beautiful Irish girls he worked with. The young engineer wrote back, declaring with some passion that he was not looking at other girls. Hi...

The Horse

The Horse That Wanted More Beauty A cosmic god had a horse. The horse was beautiful and also it had many good qualities. But it wanted to be more perfect in every way. It especially wanted to become beauty unparalleled. One day the horse said to the cosmic god, “0 Lord, you have given me beauty. You have given me other good qualities. I am so grateful to you. But how I wish you could make me more beautiful. I would be extremely, extremely grateful if you could make me more beautiful.” The cosmic god said, “I am more than ready to make you more beautiful. Tell me in what way you want to be changed.” The horse said, “It seems to me that I am not well proportioned. My neck is too short. If you can make my neck a little longer, my upper body will be infinitely more beautiful. And if you can make my legs much longer and thinner, then I will look infinitely more beautiful in my lower body.” The cosmic god said, “Amen” Then immediately he m...

BOOM

                     ****BOOM**** Let me tell you one secret, don’t tell the person seating beside you, because as I said it is a secret. There is something we call disappointment or better still let us use the word rejection. Often time we tend to feel depressed, bored, moody or call it whatever all in the name of been rejected, but I’m here to tell you one big secret “ANYTIME YOU FEEL YOU ARE BEING REJECTED FROM SOMETHING GOOD, YOU ARE ACTUALLY BEING REDIRECTED TO SOMETHING BETTER” You don’t believe?? Oh yes!!! That’s the point we need to change our mindset, yes because our mindset affects us a lot, we find it difficult to agree that every negativity carries its own atom of positivity, or maybe we even agree but we can’t just get ourselves to believe that these positivity are for us. Many a time when we are rejected from something good it jus...

Born For A Purpose

BORN FOR A PURPOSE But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood,an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should she's forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light (1 peter2:9) One of the things you must endeavor to know is God's purpose for your life. You were born for a purpose. You are not an accident. You are a product of divine wisdom,knowledge and understanding. The Almighty God does nothing arbitrarily. In everything he does, he is known for clear cut purpose. He knows where He is heading before He sets out on any course. Even for those things or people you think are bad, there is a purpose they serve in the circle of life. Each purpose of God is known to him from the beginning. This is revealed in act 15:18 . Every one in the world came for a purpose. From what God told Jeremiah, we see that his purpose for us is not an after thought. He had thought out his purpose for each of us before ever creating us. It also tells ...

Food For Thought

GOOD FOOD FOR THOUGHTS 1. Take risks in your life. If you win, you can lead; if you lose, you can guide. 2. People are not what they say but what they do; so judge them not from their words but from their actions. 3. When someone hurts you, don't feel bad because it's a law of nature that the tree that bears the sweetest fruits gets maximum number of stones. 4. Take whatever you can from your life because when life starts taking from you, it takes even your last breath. 5. In this world, people will always throw stones on the path of your success. It depends on what you make from them - a wall or a bridge. 6. Challenges make life interesting; overcoming them make life meaningful. 7. There is no joy in victory without running the risk of defeat. 8. A path without obstacles leads nowhere. 9. Past is a nice place to visit but certainly not a good place to stay. 10. You can't have a better tomorrow if you are thinking about yesterday all the time. 11. If what you did...

Monday Drive

Good morning Africa, good morning world        It’s another beautiful day we are all going out with positivity, high hopes all on our minds wishing that all we have imagined and pictured in our minds would just happen to give us a beautiful start to a week we hope is going to be wonderful.        I know you are in haste to go to work you don’t want to be late, and those of us not going to work have dairy or a notepad where we have scheduled our time and drawn out how we want to spend our day and probably our week, beautiful!  But pause, have you ever considered the way you go about your daily activities and noticed that it’s all the same thing we keep doing the same routine, just revolving round the same circle and it seem as if we are stalked in the same point? I’m super sure some of us might have thought of it, but just shrug it off since we get the normal income we are suppose to get, or we se...

ME ON MAKING NEW FRIENDS

ME ON MAKING NEW FRIENDS. I was alone and scared,  Not sure of what to do next.  It was a new place to me, I didn't know anyone, or anywhere.  I was shy and timid.  I didn't know who to ask for directions.  They all laughed at and mocked me.  Scorning the very ground I walked on.  I miss my old place.  I had a voice then,  An image.  But then I thought to myself,  What makes here different from my old place?  The people here are as human as the ones there,  And I am as much a stranger as I was back there. I decided to break the chain, Ease the negativity off of me.  There was this girl I'd see ,she seemed to have the same problem as I. "Hi. Can we be friends?" She almost leaped for joy.  I thought to myself,  You'd probably never know how much your words can mean to someone,  How it can save someone's life.  As I linked my arm through hers,  And we walked side by side,...

One thing about life

Tribute to Dami          With deep sorrow in my heart I write this, the life we are living is just temporary and there is somewhere called eternity, this body we posses we don’t own it we are just caretakers, life is full of so many surprises, son don’t waste your time hating others.           I know someone about three days ago he was all smiling, happy he was still in charge of the body he posses  but now he is gone. What is the meaning of life???          This is just a pointer to each and every one of us. Life is too short for us to seat and be hating one another keeping malice and all that. do good as much as you can, help others as often as possible with the whole of your hear,  we all carry a tag of an expiry date that only the creator can see, no matter how small the opportunity you get is, stop waiting for perfect  moments ju...

A King's humility

One day a sage came to a King for an interview. The sage had to wait for a long time because the King was very busy. Finally, the King said he could come in. When the sage entered the hall, the first thing he did was to take off his hat and bow to the King. Immediately the King took off his crown and bowed to the sage. The ministers and others who were around the King asked, “What are you doing? He took off his hat because he is an ordinary man. But you are the King. Why should you have to take off your crown?” The King said to his ministers, “You fools, do you think I wish to remain inferior to an ordinary man? He is humble and modest. His humility is a peerless virtue’. He showed his respect to me. If I did not take off my crown, then I would be showing less humility than an ordinary man, and I would be defeated by him. If I am the King, I should be better than everybody in everything. That is why I took off my crown and bowed to him!...

A THING ABOUT LOVE

           A THING ABOUT LOVE     Really there is nothing like finding the bone of your bone and the flesh of your flesh, because hmm…. If you do you have found favor in the sight of God, then you really know what love is.     I was opportune to seat with my grandparents after dinner one evening and we were all talking laughing and everything was going on smoothly, I was lost in my thought reviewing how I spent my day and how it all unfolded. It was all fun because I was just laughing at the countless times my grandpa and grandma quarreled and settled in no time, the one that lasted longest lasted for about five minute. I was smiling and I just heard a raised tune, someone voice was trying to go higher the other party, I just turned my back lo and behold grandma and grandpa are at it again. This time because grandpa was listening to radio and they were playing a music grandma classed as not suiting t...

LIFE CHANGING QUOTES

Below are 10 quotes from Stephen Covey that have the power to completely change the direction of one’s life. 1) The key is not to prioritize what's on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities. 2) The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing. 3) Live out of your imagination, not your history. 4) Trust is the glue of life. It's the most essential ingredient in effective communication. It's the foundational principle that holds all relationships. 5) Most of us spend too much time on what is urgent and not enough time on what is important. 6) I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions. 7) You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage— pleasantly, smilingly, nonapologetically, to say “no” to other things. And the way you do that is by having a bigger “yes” burning inside. The enemy of the “best” is often the “good." 8) I teach people how to treat me by what I will allo...

ONE MORE STEP

“Only those who can risk going too far can find out how far one can go” Hmm!!!         Many of us live our lives based on what other people tell us, we don’t really try our best to find things out by ourselves. So may a time we live our lives with other people’s limits and boundaries not really knowing our own strength.        There is fun in exploring new things, try something different, don’t always stick to that old method, that old tradition, because if you do, you wouldn’t really know your strength and how far you can get.         Albert Enstine once said it is insanity to keep doing the same thing, the same way and expect a different result. Do things for yourself, don’t always depend on what other people say, or what you hear from someone, we have different strength levels, what works for A may not work for B.        Only those who would risk going too far can know how far one can go. Just like h...

SUNDAY VIBE

So I was in a cab today, I was going out of school with a friend of mine. She was meant to drop before me. So as she was about dropping, she gave the cab man 60 naira in place of the 50 naira it was meant to be. The cab man didn’t have change so he dismissed her. The other passengers started complaining against the cab man accusing cab drivers of always withholding people’s change. One lady in front spoke more strongly than the rest, not giving the cab man time to explain. I personally wasn’t interested in this exchange till the cab man said something that caught my attention. “Stop talking. You are a lady.” I wasn’t sure whether this statement annoyed or humbled me. I’m guessing it humbled me. This here was a man who understood the meaning of gender roles. I know the talk about whether or not there should be gender equality and as to what and what not are the gender roles, I’m going to take this example out and explain at least a gender role. Now, as this cab man said what he said...

SHE WALKS IN BEAUTY

She Walks in Beauty She walks in beauty, like the night Of cloudless climes and starry skies; And all that’s best of dark and bright Meet in her aspect and her eyes; Thus mellowed to that tender light Which heaven to gaudy day denies. One shade the more, one ray the less, Had half impaired the nameless grace Which waves in every raven tress, Or softly lightens o’er her face; Where thoughts serenely sweet express, How pure, how dear their dwelling-place. And on that cheek, and o’er that brow, So soft, so calm, yet eloquent, The smiles that win, the tints that glow, But tell of days in goodness spent, A mind at peace with all below, A heart whose love is innocent!

IF YOU ARE IMMUNE TO BOREDOM

If you are immune to boredom, there is literally nothing yo u cannot achieve          Well we talked about facing every tune whether pleasant or not, we talked about not taking permission from everybody before making that if you want to achieve greatness move but now we are going to talk about something similar but different.           Boredom is one of the main factors that stops us from achieving greatness, the moment we start something the new, especially those things we don’t really like no matter how much the zeal and passion is, the moment boredom begins to crawl in we tend to loose interest and stop on the way and so we have not achieved great where we ought to have          But if you are immune to boredom, wow!!! That’s the expression, because you are literally going to be able to achieve that greatness, no matter how difficult people may say it is. Because even when you start something you don’t r...

IF YOU WANT to ACHIEVE GREATNESS

If you want to achieve greatness, stop asking for permission.       Looking at the subject it looks tricky and weird too but, some of us don’t really live our lives we live the life someone else has designed for us. We worry too much about what these people would say, we subject ourselves to them to the extent that we turn them to gods our small idols and we tend to ask permission from them before we do anything.      There is a place of a mentor and a mentee, that’s for another day, to be a mentee does not mean you are supposed to be a robot automatically defaulted to the configuration of your mentor, that’s not part of this subject but, to become great you really need to take that chance, make that move and stop asking everybody for permission.      If you keep asking for permission from everybody, you wouldn’t become the great person you are designed to be, because, the discouragement would always be more than the encouragement. There ...

Face the music even if you don’t like the tune

Face the music even if you don’t like the tune     Many of us love to assume or should I say take leadership positions, but hate to dance to that sour tune that plays along it when things are not really moving smoothly       As a leader, you would be faced with so many tunes, the good, the pleasant, the wonderful, the bad, and even the ugly, but only real leaders face the music even if they don’t like the tune.       Leadership is not always rosy, and that’s the beauty of it, your ability to stand in faces of challenges, coming in form of tunes, sometimes, it could even become noise because the good and bad tunes play at the same time, it’s now left to you to do the right thing.        Don’t be scared of  assuming leadership positions or even becoming a leader, just prepare for every possible case scenario consider the odds and when you are faced with unpleasant tunes you would be able to deal with them. ...

BE YOURSELF

                    BE YOURSELF It’s not called giving up when you know you have fully done your best so… don’t blame yourself for someone else’s lack of appreciation  #RPG       Often times we tend to put ourselves under the pressure of what people would say about what we are doing even though deep down somehow, somewhere, we know that it’s the right thing to do.       For sure it is good to get feedback, in fact they are the best things you can get from people around you, but that’s not a license to beat up yourself because someone is not seeing the picture you are seeing, and so they are not in any way appreciating your work.      Be yourself, do your best, be willing to put it all on the line for your dreams, don’t blame yourself for someone else’s lack of appreciation. It is not called giving up provided you have done your very best #RPG   I believe this word is for ...

BE CAREFUL

What doesn’t hurt you may hurt someone else, so be careful with the urge to say, I HAVE SEEN WORSE OR IT COULD BE WORSE. Hmmm!!! Many of us would be guilty of this in one way or the other and so if it is a crime many of us are criminals, even though it’s for a right course. Many of us in a bid to console comfort or sympathize with people, we lack words to speak and the next thing that comes to our mouth is “I HAVE SEEN WORSE”. So ask yourself, how has that phrase or tense been able to help anyone you consoled or are sympathizing with? Yes we may have fallen victim of similar situation but let’s not forget we all have different strength levels. Two friends Mr. Plastic Cup and Mr. Glass Cup were walking down the road one day, and they were just chatting and having fun, then an argument cropped up and Mr. Plastic says I am better than you are, Mr. Glass says, no that’s not true, I’m more premier, more presentable, and they kept arguing. Then Mr. Plastic said, I can withstand what ...

GET FEEDBACK AND USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE

                          Get feedback           And use it to your advantage   Feedback is the breakfast of champions.(Ken Blanchard) Once you begin to take action, you’ll start getting feedback, advice, help, suggestions, direction, and even criticism that will help you constantly adjust and move forward while continually enhancing your knowledge, abilities, attitudes, and relationships. But asking for feedback is really only the first part of the equation. Once you receive feedback, you have to be willing to respond to it. There are two kinds of feedback you might encounter, negative and positive. We tend to prefer the positive that is, results, money, praise, a raise, a promotion, satisfied customers, awards, happiness, inner peace, intimacy, pleasure. It feels better. it tells us that we are on course, that we are doing the right thing. We tend not to like negative feedback – lack...

DONT BE AN IGNORAMOS

                             IGNORANCE                   Mr. john an old post officer came back home late from work one evening and he wanted to open the door to his apartment, and his keys fell down, umm this old man out of only God knows what! left the front of his house and went under a streetlamp and kept searching for his key, he stayed there for over one hour looking for his keys, a young man so curious stood watching this old man, out of curiosity this young man went to meet Mr. john  and asked him sir, what are you looking for under the street lamp? and Mr. john replied him and said I  was trying to open the door to my apartment and my keys fell off and since then i have been looking for my keys, this young man felt pity for Mr. john and said to him sir, why look for your keys here? You are suppose to search the front of your house but Mr. john said...

MAKE THAT MOVE

                  Make the move It is not about having creative thoughts mind blowing ideas; it’s all about taking steps, making moves So many times we feel like we have ideas that can generate more money for us much bigger income or larger profits, so what then happen? Having an idea and executing it are two different things you can have a multibillion dollar idea and you are as poor as every beggar on the street. What is having a very creative thought or mind blowing ideas and not putting them to work or use? It’s all dead, a penny you invest is much better than a pound you bury, because sooner or later the penny would grow to the same level with that pound and even grow bigger than it, the same applies to our ideas if you just have ideas and you don’t execute them then it’s all a waste and we just occupy our heads with beautiful but worthless thought. Don’t wait for motivation from anyone, because that idea you have just came up in...

BE WILLING TO PUT IT ALL ON THE LINE FOR YOUR DREAMS

              Be willing to put it all on the line for your dream     Only those who dare to fail greatly can ever achieve greatly (Robert F. Kennedy). Sometimes, our dreams sound like dumb ideas and foolish to the ears, we feel like nobody is going to pay attention to us but that’s not true, have you made a move? Have you taken any step?          You have got to be willing to put all on the line for your dream, and what you believe in. Once upon a time Robert Allen who was a real estate agent was willing to put all on the line for his dream and what he believed in, imagine how dumb it was to buy a real estate with little or no money, but he did anyways, he went on took the challenge, though tough because many people never believed in what he saw and with that he had more hurdles to jump than he even imagined or expected. It was not in any way pleasing, it wasn’t clear at all but he finally achieved his aim and con...