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Express Yourself

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  How To Express Yourself Have you paused at some point in your life to think "How do you share yourself with others?" As individuals, we all have special traits that make us unique from others. The same way we have our methods or preferred style of sharing some parts of ourselves with everyone around us. The level with which you relate with everyone around you is different. Friends, family, and acquaintances have different levels of communication with you.  How you express yourself to others shows a significant part of your personality. It helps them understand who you are, and that sets a tone for your entire life. It is a very important aspect of your life, which needs your attention.  The way you share yourself is termed self-expression. There are lots of ways to express yourself. Some ways may be "wrong", but there are more ways to which you can share yourself with others so that you can be heard by others.  What is Self-Expression? Kim & Ko, 2007, defined ...

Who Am I? II

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  Who Am I? From the previous post, we saw that “Ego” consists of three special elements of the human psyche. What view do you have about yourself? (self-image), what value do you place on yourself? (self-esteem), and also what, beliefs and ideologies do you associate yourself with? (self-identity). Your ego tells you exactly who you are. We have all been created differently, and that is what makes the world beautiful. What you have to offer is different from what the person next to you has to offer. This diversity of potential makes life fun. Just as nobody is better than you, no talent is better than the other they are all just uniquely different.  The way you define your ego defines who you are. Whether you will have low self-esteem or high self-esteem depends on how you define your ego. What do you say to yourself? What kind of books do you read? What kind of videos do you watch? Who are you walking with? All these combine to make up who you are.   When you succ...

Who am I?

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 Who am I? This is one of the toughest questions life can ever throw at you.  Before anyone ever asks who you are? You must have asked yourself this question at least a thousand times, directly or indirectly.  But have you ever paused and taken time to intentionally answer this question?   This is a question that has a relative answer. Who you are is different from who your neighbor is, but one thing is in common. That generic answer to this question is “ EGO ”.  Yes, I know quite a good number of folks have a bias thought pattern about ego and don’t necessarily see ego as a good thing. But “ Who am I ?”, which can also be interpreted as “ What is my iden tity?” is birth-forth out of our ego.  Ego can be described as the combination of three special elements of the human psyche. What view do you have about yourself (self-image)? What value do you place on yourself (self-esteem)? And also what, beliefs and ideologies do you associate yourself with (self...

Ani

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Omolara Aluko mercy  The love of my life The woman of my dreams  It's indiscribable what you mean to me  Like jack and Jill our love will never grow old  I will love you with all I am and with all I have  I will make you feel like you are the only woman in the world I love you till the point that every other person cannot see anything they can do for you  Let us life live a happy life together my woman Happy anniversary to us

Our Love Story

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You are my treasure, The reward of my adventure  Searching far and wide Seeking where you hide Love had been a delusion, Until your emission  I asked for your permission, I will give you all my attention I was too busy and I couldn't realise, You were right before me. It started with the snub And now we've built the hug  Your love overwhelms me, I can never have enough  Even when it seems lost, you have it in-store. Haters came and thought they tore it (your love) Little did they know, in my heart it was reborn. Whatever comes my way, my heart is where your love abodes. I don't know if you care, but I wanna give you Roses. You want a leader, let me be your Moses. With nice fragrance, I'll satisfy your noses. Wherever we go, I will make it homely. All you have to do is to keep on loving, Love of my life, that will be our story.

Think about it

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Often times we live life we don't even think about it  We sleep and wake up we don't think about it  Life throws shit at us, we navigate it, still we don't think about it You broke today, and tomorrow you have some bucks yet we don't think about it You love, You hate you take it as a normal, but still you don't think about it Things happen yes but they don't just happen, they happen for a reason think about it,  When you think about it, you get to appreciate life better, so whatever you go through in life, good or bad, think about it.....  

Damn too late

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Alone on the sick bed, i laid helplessly, all I could think of was, "the end for me is here" how did I get to this point I thought to myself, I couldn't explain it.  Unlike stories I've  heard  or movies I see, when someone is dying, in their last moments they have lots of people around them, friends family, loved ones but my own story seem to be different.   I was alone by myself, #chuckle I had always thought I'd be super old in my dying moment, all my hair would have turned gray and I'll have plenty people around me, after all I'm generous with money, the more I work and make money, the more I give out to those I think are in need. But unlike what I've been thinking my situation was "incongruous" I was married, I still had my parents hale and hearty, my siblings were very much alive, I also had kids of my own, but I was perplexed that at that very point of my life it became clear to me that despite all the people and things I thought I had...