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Challenges are bound to show forth at some point in your life, it depends on how prepared you are before these challenges show up. Sometimes you are faced with little challenges and you give us before even trying to tackle them. You tag it as a big problem so that you can have an excuse.  But think about it, those challenges you were faced with some days, months, or even years back, are they really big problems? Or were you just too lazy to face them?  When you are faced with certain issues, you should take a critical look at them, and analyze them as much as possible. Sometimes you will get to find out that these challenges are not as big as you call them.  Life is full of ups and downs, and I can assure you, that things will not always go your way. One thing is certain though, for every situation, there is a possible 1001 options on how to handle it. No situation in life leaves you with only one choice. It all depends on what you decide to do at the end of the day....

What are you living for? Sounds weird right? I know, but ask yourself that question again, it will make sense. The truth is regardless of who you are or at whatever point you find yourself there should be something you are living for. When people think about you, what are they thinking about you for? What are you known for? Until you can truly answer these questions, you may just be existing and not living. What is your purpose? What you are living for is defined by your purpose. As much as there are over 7 billion people in this world, every individual has a unique purpose. You just need to find your purpose and you'd be able to live life. The problem with many people is, that they see purpose as something gigantic, something really big. If it is not something way beyond their dream and capacity then it is not their purpose. But that is not how life works.  Your purpose is something that when you do, you derive satisfaction while impacting other lives with it. It's that simple...

Cherish those memories Life most times don't turn out the way we hope it would, and this makes it difficult to feel excited and live happy at all times.  News of wars and insurgency doesn't make matters any better. One moment you are open to smiling and the next you are sad or hissing after hearing some terrible news. The truth is, if we keep on waiting for life to create happy moments for us, then we will be frustrated.  A wise man once said, "every moment is important and significant, so quit waiting for perfect moments, just pick a moment and make it perfect." Most times we put ourselves under unnecessary pressure with the delusion that we can only create memories and be happy if we live in luxury. But take a break, pause and think about it, is that true? Is luxury the only ground for creating and making memories? As much as money is important, and let's be honest money is a whole new dimension, you can wear what you and buy whatever you want, but think about i...

In life, growth is very important, and to grow the body needs some basic nutrient. The kind of nutrition or malnutrition the body undergoes will determine the kind of growth you will have. For many reasons people decide on different diet plans, keto, vegan, paleo, gluten-free diet just to name a few. These diets work the wonders they are designed to work. In the same way, whatever we ingest will determine what our output will be. Most times we are the product of what we take in. like someone on a diet who is cautious about their weight and eager to maintain a good shape, the result you will produce depends on what you feed on. As you are already guessing I'm not talking about the literal food we eat. What are you listening to? What kind of books do you read? What movies, TV shows, and series are you watching? Are they adding value to you or taking value away from you? Pause! Ask yourself this question again and answer sincerely, what are you feeding on? What you consistently feed o...

Who are those in your circle? What type of friends do you keep?  There's a saying that goes thus "the average of 5 people you walk with sums up your life" we could agree to disagree on this, your choice! but it still remains true. Interestingly sometimes you have a little setback or challenge and you are scared to share with your friends!! does that even make sense?  You be thinking in your head, If I tell them they will laugh and make jest of me  and they will not even take it serious no matter what.  What kind of a circle is that? Friends who can't relate with your situation, who can't understand and sympathize with you in whatever situation you are in, they are not friends at all, they don't merit that title.   You need to redefine what friendship is. There are people you talk to they don't necessarily have to be your friends. And then you have the true people who actually care who you can call friends. Most times you get it all wrong assuming because y...

Love is very important in all that we do, it may be difficult but it is something you have to spread. And don't forget first before you can love others you must first learn to love yourself.  Some people will be difficult, some may be unlovable, it's understandable and unavoidable, but still, you have to find a way somehow to spread the love.  You may not know what impact you are having on others by extending some kind gesture to them. When you appreciate others they feel loved and alive.  Here's a poem to console you, just in all that you do spread the love.  Life is too short, to live in pain; Life is too short, to live for revenge; Life is too short, to live for hate; Life is too short, to be troubled all day.  Wallow in pain, complement it with tears; Wallow in hate, there's nothing to gain; Life is too short, to live in the past; Life is too short, to base it on a grudge.  You want the best in life, you have to keep a smile; You want the best in life, ...