Assumptions

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                                Assumption

"I know him very well,  if I ask him for help he won't help me out so there's no point in asking"

is it not her?  She's too loquacious she can't keep any secret.  Is it not in this Nigeria that we are in? There are no jobs available.  Is it not Liverpool?  They can never win trophies. "Is it not this is it not that"

 Now that's how many of us end up losing everything,  and many a time make mistakes that are totally avoidable. Assumptions are mere excuses and by the way we all know,  only failures give excuses.  It has gotten so bad that some people assume for others,  assumption Jason never taken anyone to the apex level rather it throws them down rock bottom.  If you liberal life based on assumption,  you will end up as a nobody.

 The face is that many are scared to ask other,  they are scared to walk up to others,  and so they end up assuming,  giving themselves excuses.

It is okay to be scared,  but what we do when we get scared determines whether you are a coward(failure)  or a courageous person(success)  and just so you know courage is jot the absence of fear no.

 "Courage is knowing that you are scared and facing the situation regardless"  Rev.A.A Abegunde.
In every situation you find yourself don't assume and if you are one of those persons who think they can't live without assumptions, ask yourself; what I'd the worst case scenario?  What can probably be the worst thing that will happen in this thing I want to do,  with this person that I want to talk with?  What are the implications, what are the likely outcome?  If it is not to your detriment  why not try it out?  Rather than seating back and assuming what is not and in the long run end up doing nothing.

"Be wise and stand up,  assumption  is an excuse for being lazy,  and if you keep that up?  You will never amount to anything in life

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