YOUR CIRCLE

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Who are those in your circle? What type of friends do you keep?

There's a saying that goes thus "the average of 5 people you walk with sums up your life" we could agree to disagree on this your choice but it still remains true.


you know  many a time it is funny that you have some kind of challenges and you would be scared to tell your friends,  does that even make sense?
If I tell them they will laugh and make jest of me  and they will not even take it serious no matter what.


Friends who can't relate with your situation, who can't understand and sympathize with you in whatever situation you are in, they are not friends at all, they don't merit that title.
If need arises and you can't run to them can you even still call them friends?  Someone said and I quote, "If you can solve a little financial challenge with as little as 3 phone calls, then your circle is useless" it's funny but true.


The problem many of us have is that we are scared to loose our friends, we are scared to speak out for ourselves, but the truth is the longer you keep your mouth shut, the more damage you do to yourself.
Expect on very very rare occasions, you are meant to choose your friends and not the other way round, because if you don't pick for yourself you end up getting what you don't bargain for.
It's easy, you don't have to initiate strife or quarrel in a bid to end the friendship, no #4 constructive SMS will do the trick or better still a well composed WhatsApp, Facebook, Twitter or even Instagram message can handle it


I could understand that human limitations can hinder some people from trying to help that is understandable, but that is not what we are talking about, if they even have the desire to help even without the resources they are worth keeping around, but aside that when they show nonchalant attitude towards your situation and no desire whatsoever to help or give you comfort, buddy you are in the wrong circle.



Birds of a feather they say flocks together,except if you are like that as well, then probably you could keep that up but just know you won't end up anywhere good, grades matter, intellectual prowess are good but good character paves more way for you. Have a kind and tender heart be willing to help when you have the opportunity. 


Take responsibility of your life, and stay on top of the situation, if they can't be at your aid when you need them they don't merit a spot on your friend list, be wise and think on these things. 

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