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Where is my golden teeth

I found myself seating in one corner sober, tired and sweating profusely. I'm so done for. I just can't make anything tangible out of my scattered and unpleasant life.... those were the words I kept telling myself. I got tried of going about doing the same thing with no result to show for it, gone for too many interviews for which I know I'm more than qualified for, still no job and no means to an end. I've always hoped for a little bit of stability in my life even if it's just in one thing.the family which should have been the foundation of my stability in life, was never strong. My family on it's own is another headache on it's own you could probably imagine what I went through.  Mum lived her reckless life drinking alcohol as she knows how to do best and dad you'd never know the difference between when he's at home and when he's not, always out of the house earlier than anyone because of work, comes late everyday after ha...

Apocalypse

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Oops  my life, how I wish I knew, I wished I had listen I woke up this dark morning and everyone and everything was gone, seemed like apocalypse is happening,  like I am the only one left on earth I wish I knew where everyone and everything was. Naturally when you wake up to a good morning the sky will be blue the weather will be nice you'll see people going about their business but on this particular day the sky was black everywhere dark and void, I couldn't even fathom what was happening I was...speechless I don't know what was happening  I wished I could rewind time, I believed in myself I believed in my ability, many people talk to me you need people to survive but I will say to them no I can do this on my own I don't need anybody. I acquired all the degrees I could possibly have, I got all the awards and honorarium I could possibly get, I was so wealthy and famous but man what's the meaning of all the Fame if no one can see except me.... I...

Adapt to change, don't react to it

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No matter the phase of life we get to, there's always a positive and a negative part of it, now sometimes, we feel we've gotten to a point in life where everything seem really bad, and then things are not happening the way we want, life has it own flaws and nothing has ever been constant, except for change. When we go through this change process, we react to it instead of adapting to it. Change is constant and at some point in life it will happen to us all irrespective of who or what we are, this changes many a time are for the good but we don't make the better of it because we react instead of adapt. Just picture a tree 🌲 growing on someone's had, now it's obviously weird, and for sure we'd only but see the negative side and react to it instead of adapting to it, now no matter how bad it is there's always positivity, for the fact that a tree is growing on someone's hand is something super unique, at first people wouldn't want to relate but wi...

Solution

Sometimes little things come our way and then we give up even before trying, and we tag it a very big problem, not even taking a critical look at the state of the matter, wether it is as though as we tag it or not, life always has it's ups and downs and, things may not really go the way we may want them to go. But take a deep breath, look at the matter at hand, you may probably even have the solution inside of you, meaning you don't even need help from an external source. And even if you may need an external source for the solution to the situation and there sure is a solution? Then it was never a problem in the first place, cause the moment you have a solution then whatever it is, it was never a problem, just a trial or quickening agent in disguise..,

Sunday vibe

Here what a professor told some freshmen and women during their orientation: "Academic excellence is overrated! Being top of your class does not necessarily guarantee that you will be at the top of life.   You could graduate as the best student in finance but it doesn't mean you will make more money than everybody else. The best graduating law student does not necessarily become the best lawyer. The fact is, life requires more than the ability to understand a concept, memorize it and reproduce it in an exam. School reward people for their memory. Life reward people for their imagination. School rewards caution, life rewards daring. School hails those who live by the rules. Life exalts  those who break the rules and set new ones. So do I mean people shouldn't study hard in school? Oh, no, you should. But don't sacrifice every other thing on the altar of First Class. Don't limit yourself to the classroom. Do something practical. Take a leadershi...

planning and evaluating your productivity

 Planning and evaluating our productivity  Text:1st chronicles 12:32 *Without a goal you have no plan  *planning is intentional  Plans can be  long term (yearly)or  short term(weekly or daily) *aimlessness is the worst enemy of success  *your plans have to be on paper *planning will make you do 20% of the things that will give you 80% fulfillment  *perspective thinking (successful people look into the future as far as they can look) *planning is not all about action but also what not to do discipline  *as success is not an accident, so also is failure  *making a list of everything you can think of that you could possibly do to achieve your goal *time management is life management  *know your priorities and posteriorities  *the A B C D E methods of time management  A=they are things you must do, they have serious consequences  B=should do C=right to do D=delegate aspect...

Don't try your best, always do your best

Don’t try your best, do your best I’ve come a long way studying people and I’ve noticed that, often time many people don’t even get to do their best; they hide under the shadow of trying. Imagine someone preparing for an exam and you ask how has been their preparation for exams, and you get response like “I’m trying my best”!!! What happen to “I’m doing my best?” or just picture someone who just finished writing an exam and you ask the person,” how was the exams?” and the person would be like “ummm!!! See I tried my best” sometimes our best is not even enough, and when you try your best you end up doing below your best, don’t forget that your best is not even @100% yet, the more you keep trying to do your best the more you keep doing below per. Dump trying, start doing, be confident in what you can do best, do it and stop trying. The world is waiting for you to conquer it, but you have to know that you can’t conquer the world by trying but by doing…..