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Love can be so divisive,  You can't always say,  Today it is sweet, tomorrow it is bitter,  Someone loves you with their all today then,  Tomorrow they hate you to death.  Well nothing in life is certain,  Someone is healthy today, Tomorrow they're dead,  You can never say never.  What hurts the most is; Seeing the person you love,  someone you feel you could die for today,  and they also claim they have the same feelings,  The next day their feelings change,   and it's like they are some different.  CONSIDER THIS IMAGE  Someone you love using their words to pierce your heart without any form of remorse,  As much as I love you, my heart couldn't dare,  I always pray for you,  just as a Prove that I care,  But your words too harsh, and I can't even bare, I thought your love was rare, but it is so cheap, as cheap as ...

Who are those in your circle? What type of friends do you keep? There's a saying that goes thus "the average of 5 people you walk with sums up your life" we could agree to disagree on this your choice but it still remains true. you know  many a time it is funny that you have some kind of challenges and you would be scared to tell your friends,  does that even make sense? If I tell them they will laugh and make jest of me  and they will not even take it serious no matter what. Friends who can't relate with your situation, who can't understand and sympathize with you in whatever situation you are in, they are not friends at all, they don't merit that title. If need arises and you can't run to them can you even still call them friends?  Someone said and I quote, "If you can solve a little financial challenge with as little as 3 phone calls, then your circle is useless" it's funny but true. The problem many of us have is t...

"Tough love" I'm sure some of you will disagree with this term,  is there any anything called "tough love" how can love even be tough the Bible says in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 New International Version (NIV) 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. After considering the above scripture  I'm sure you'll be thinking again then where did I find my term "tough love" but only those  who really love you will sometimes make it look as if they're hard on you in a tough manner but they still love you so extracting the toughness from their attitude and the Show of love from their character merging it together you will see where the term "tough love" c...

While on his way,   he was already thinking  of how and when  to pick a date  and do proper introduction with her parent  so that  you could get engaged and get married as soon as possible.  Quick recap  who is Trent?  Trent  is  Nigerian American, Tall,  fair handsome, smart and intelligent guy.  his parents are based in the UK us but after his studies  he decided to come down to Nigeria  to learn the culture  work  and possibly get married before he goes back.  how did I meet him?  we are neighbours  we work together at Ryan group of companies at the oil refinery in Utopia precisely  he was the process manager  and I was the production Manager since our jobs were interwoven  we kind of clicked well together  he stays at number 56 zootopia Estate Mars  Avenue  while I stay at 57.  Usually he will drive to her house but on th...

Trent has never been a violent person, he's always cheerful and easy going; wherever you see him,  he always has this beautiful smile on his face. everyone loves him, he's someone you want to be around always. Then on this beautiful,  day oh sorry should I say this ugly day!  I'm sure I saw something else, not the cheerful man I use to know, he had this wicked rage in his eyes "what could have happened?" I thought to myself.  I wanted to go stop him I couldn't get myself to do anything because I was certain at that moment he was so unpredictable, I don't know what thought was running through his mind,  but I was sure they were not  good l. he always look like the mister perfect but then on this very day I knew we are all human after all and no one is perfect, what happened I could not tell. In the eventide when everything was settled and all tension was down, I went to him "hey what's up brother,  how are you?"  I asked. you seem to...

Is there really anything called freedom? Are we ever truly free? First of all what is freedom?  According to the English dictionary, freedom is (uncountable) The state of being free, of not being imprisoned or enslaved. (countable) The lack of a specific constraint, or of constraints in general; a state of being free, unconstrained. Taking the literal meaning of those words enslave or being imprisoned out of the context, you will discover that one way or the other we are engaged with one thing or the other, it could be religion, it could be material things, but one thing or the other gets us which in turn takes away the word freedom from us.  For a practical example, look at a marriage setting, once you have that seal or stamp (ring) on you  whether you like it or not, one aspect of you has lost it's freedom, you maybe free to do something's but there are also constraints, maybe at the time when you were still single you could be free to get hom...

And so I realised I was all alone again in my world I thought it was a dream because I never imagined it to happen to me. We were so much in love deeply rooted, I will brag to my friends how amazing she was and how awesome I am being her man, they couldn't get enough of me. Shit happens and you can never say never.  I was lost and a shadow of my former self,  I could not get hold of me, can't even say exactly  what I was doing, Just roaming about so lost in my thought, hoping someone, somewhere will find me. It's been over 16 months and It still feels just like yesterday, I have been so alone no true friend and no true love. I wish I could rewind time, and go back to when it was me and her,  but Damn its all gone, It just dawned on me dude you can do nothing than to just move on. just working in the garden in the cool of the evening aided by nature with a swift and refreshing breeze, my mind and souls were all align. My hands caressing(A gen...